QUESTION TIME: Why Do Men Go Back To Their Ex For S*x?

If you have a new person in your life and you wanna move  on ,ex sex is the simple way not too fulfill your want , while the crazy stat that says men think about sex every 7 seconds has been debunked, the feeling behind the statistic remains true: some men can’t get s*x out of their minds. Another thing that’s hard to get out of your mind? Your ex. Coupled together, s*x and the ex are hard to resist. But according to most experts, ex s*x is not a good idea. Here are reasons men (and women!) love ex s*x   and why you should stay away from it.

1. You’re familiar. No need to impress you, no need to figure out what you like, no need to wonder if you’ll freak out when he tells you his weird fantasy. The same is true for you — being with a familiar warm body is appealing — but it won’t help you get over him and it won’t help you make a new dating life for yourself.

2. You’re available. Unless he’s a master pick-up artist, it’s not that easy to find someone to have s*x with so if he’s looking for a quick lay and you’re available, he might take it. Protect yourself. Don’t go out for drinks with him, don’t let him stop by to drop off that sweater you left at his house and don’t answer his 2 am call.

3. He wants closure. “Just one last time, then I’ll be over you.” Ever heard that excuse? It won’t work. s*x will only bring you closer; it’s rare that s*x will make you realize that you weren’t meant for each other or will give you the feeling that “it’s over.” Because it’s not actually over if you’re having s*x. Because uh …. you’re having s*x. It’s not over.

4. He wants to win you back. s*x conjures all sorts of powerful feelings, and it’s impossible to be immune to them. Even hugging, let alone unclad full body groping, produces the bonding hormone oxytocin, which can make you feel loving and cuddly towards someone you don’t want in your life anymore and that’s his plan. The only way to make sure you’re not fooled by your body is to stay away from ex s*x.

5. He wants a friend with benefits. Ah the old friends-with-benefits conundrum. Here’s the truth: You can’t have a casual s*xual relationship with your ex, and s*x is the least casual of all relationships. There are very few benefits a lot more drawbacks: It’ll hold you back from entering a new relationship; it might even prevent you from dating people, because you’ll still feel like you have a boyfriend, but not the one you want.

6. He misses you. Aww , that’s sweet. But not a good reason to have s*x. Missing someone is normal — it’s part of the grieving and recovery process — and if you have s*x, both of you will have to start that process all over again. 


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