7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Giving Up On Your Relationship

It is high time women stopped chasing what is not; they should learn to read the signs in their relationships and learn when to give up. Many women act like their whole lives depend on the relationships’ ability to work out.

Many women give up their position and place of respect because they want to make the relationship work at all cost. Indeed, most of these women have turned to ‘Ruths’ and would prefer to stay in a relationship whether the man has given up on them or not.

Relationships should not be a one-way affair, there should be a flow between the people involved. There are certain signs that would let you know when a relationship has run its full course is starting to break. The signs you would notice then can be likened to the signs you should see when your boyfriend is not a serious person.

Find below some of the signs you should see when your boyfriend is starting to give up on the relationship:

1. When he makes you an outcast

When you are in a relationship and you discover your boyfriend has changed in the sense that he now treats you like an outcast, then you should know he has something up his sleeve.

A man who suddenly stopped giving you details about his affairs may be finding the next available exit out of that affair.

2. When he picks on everything you say

Another sign you should watch out for when your boyfriend is gradually giving up on your relationship is when he starts to pick on everything you say or do. He suddenly becomes hard to please and every single day with him with him is like you are walking on eggshells.

He is probably looking for an opportunity to bail out on you by frustrating you. That relationship would break sooner or later if this continues.

3. When he talks about other girls

When your boyfriend does not mind talking about other girls he is lusting after when you are there, then he is hinting you that the relationship is over. You are no longer the most important woman in his life and he is not making any effort to hide it. This is an important sign you should watch out for before you invest more in the relationship emotionally.

4. When he shows little or no interest in your affairs

When your boyfriend shows little or no interest in your affairs then you should sit up tight. Normally, your boyfriend ought to show some form of interest in your work or things that are of great interest to you.

When this no longer happens, that means he is investing his interest somewhere else. This is completely different from him being overwhelmed with workload in his office. When this is the case, he is probably waiting for you to read the handwriting on the wall and leave him alone.

5. When the only time you bond is during sex

A man who does all of the above things is no doubt looking for a way to leave you and the relationship. In addition to this, the only time you get to feel like you have a boyfriend is when it is time for him to have sex with you.

You may start to reconsider your options and probably leave because you may end up becoming a sex object to him. If this is the situation, the relationship might as well be given a different name.

 

 

6. When he does not know anything about you

Your boyfriend may no longer be your boyfriend in the real sense of it when he does not know the most important things in your life. He is more or less a stranger when he cannot remember the basic things about you.

This is a major sign he has lost interest in you and the relationship and you should watch out for this sign so you do not end up wasting your time.

7. When you constantly get into fights

Your relationship is definitely heading for the rocks when you and your boyfriend fight from time to time. When you cannot remember the last time you and your boyfriend had a good time without ending it in a fight, it may be that he is ready to let go of the relationship.