#1. ACCEPT THAT IT IS PRETTY NORMAL TO HAVE s3xUAL URGES
To control your s3xual urges, you must first accept that there is nothing wrong in wanting s3x or thinking about it. It is a pretty normal phase everyone goes through, unlike what we have been made to believe by some societal factors like religion that s3x is evil and having s3xual urges is a complete taboo. You have to know and accept that your s3xual desires are just one of those basic physical needs that seeks to be fulfilled one way or the other and that we are wired to think about s3x. Once you have accepted this fact and you strongly wish to put it in check, you can control it.
To control your s3xual urges, you must first accept that there is nothing wrong in wanting s3x or thinking about it. It is a pretty normal phase everyone goes through, unlike what we have been made to believe by some societal factors like religion that s3x is evil and having s3xual urges is a complete taboo. You have to know and accept that your s3xual desires are just one of those basic physical needs that seeks to be fulfilled one way or the other and that we are wired to think about s3x. Once you have accepted this fact and you strongly wish to put it in check, you can control it.
#2. KNOW WHAT TRIGGERS THOSE FEELINGS
In order to control your s3xual desires, you must know what it is that actually sets it off. For someone who is s3xually starved, it is easier to be drawn by s3xual innuendoes and signs, making it tough to control your urges but once you have identified those things that these feelings, you mind will be alert enough to steer clear of them. Avoid reading books with x-rated contents or watch pornographic movies or any form of object that can stimulate your s3xual urges.
In order to control your s3xual desires, you must know what it is that actually sets it off. For someone who is s3xually starved, it is easier to be drawn by s3xual innuendoes and signs, making it tough to control your urges but once you have identified those things that these feelings, you mind will be alert enough to steer clear of them. Avoid reading books with x-rated contents or watch pornographic movies or any form of object that can stimulate your s3xual urges.
#3. TRANSLATE YOUR s3xUAL URGES INTO CREATIVE OUTPUTSTo curb your s3xual desires, you have to do more to think less. Channel all those feelings into something that will keep your mind off s3x and then, get busy. You can read books, go out with friends, watch movies, learn new things etc. Transfer your urges into something you have always wanted to do. At the end of the day, you would have successfully managed not to think about s3x and you will also be satisfied at the things you did. If one of those hobbies trigger a s3xual response in you and you are feeling aroused, do not masturbate. Think of non-s3xual images or take a long walk..
#4. TRANSFER YOUR ENERGY INTO EXERCISE.
Engage your body in exercise that will keep you busy and keep you from feeling frustrated from not having s3x. You can jog in the morning, swim or hit the gym. You can also try yoga and other exercise that will help stimulate both mind and body.
#5. STAY AWAY FROM DRUGS AND ALCOHOL
Only few can drink heavily or do drugs without losing control of themselves. Stay away from alcohol and drugs if they will cause you to do something you will regret when you are sober. If you must drink, drink with friends you can trust and you know will watch over you.
Only few can drink heavily or do drugs without losing control of themselves. Stay away from alcohol and drugs if they will cause you to do something you will regret when you are sober. If you must drink, drink with friends you can trust and you know will watch over you.
#6. PURSUE NON-s3xUAL RELATIONSHIPS
In order to control your s3xual urge, you should enter into a relationship with no s3x. If you wonder what you both will do without the s3x, there are countless things couples can do to bond like going on a field trip together, taking up a joint hobby, learning new things together. Far from what most people think, you can have a very satisfying relationship without s3x.
In order to control your s3xual urge, you should enter into a relationship with no s3x. If you wonder what you both will do without the s3x, there are countless things couples can do to bond like going on a field trip together, taking up a joint hobby, learning new things together. Far from what most people think, you can have a very satisfying relationship without s3x.
#7. TALK TO SOMEONE
If you feel like you can’t control it all by yourself, you can talk to your doctor, pastor, parents, close relative or friends. Sometimes, having someone to talk to about how you feel helps better than trying to curb it all by yourself. Who knows, the person you want to meet may have had difficulty curbing his own desires too. What then is better than learning from someone’s experience. Don’t be shy or scared of being judged.
If you feel like you can’t control it all by yourself, you can talk to your doctor, pastor, parents, close relative or friends. Sometimes, having someone to talk to about how you feel helps better than trying to curb it all by yourself. Who knows, the person you want to meet may have had difficulty curbing his own desires too. What then is better than learning from someone’s experience. Don’t be shy or scared of being judged.
#8. GET SPIRITUAL HELP
In getting spiritual help, it’s important to note that if you are being taught that s3x is bad and it wrong, you won’t have much comfort there and it will only push you deeper into your urges. Get spiritual help that engages your mind in spiritual activities that are far from s3x. Being around people pursuing the same goal as you, especially in chastity can also be a strong supportive measure. That way you have someone holding your hands all the way.
In getting spiritual help, it’s important to note that if you are being taught that s3x is bad and it wrong, you won’t have much comfort there and it will only push you deeper into your urges. Get spiritual help that engages your mind in spiritual activities that are far from s3x. Being around people pursuing the same goal as you, especially in chastity can also be a strong supportive measure. That way you have someone holding your hands all the way.
As you would handle the viruses on your system, so should you handle the thoughts of s3x, especially when you are trying so hard to be chaste. Tackle your thoughts before it translates into an action you may regret later.
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